This sounds like a lot of argument with my 3/4 yo. A lot of repeating myself and then constantly not hearing a word I’m actually say. And in the end they just get mad and throw stuff.
You are doing the works your father did.” They said to him, “We were not born of sexual immorality. We have one Father—even God.”
You are of your father the devil, and your will is to do your father’s desires. He was a murderer from the beginning, and does not stand in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he lies, he speaks out of his own character, for he is a liar and the father of lies.
John 8:41, 44 ESV
https://bible.com/bible/59/jhn.8.41-44.ESV